8. Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over: We all know the definition of insanity, right? It’s when we take the same actions again and again while hoping for a
different and better outcome than we’ve gotten before. A mentally strong person accepts full responsibility for past behavior and is willing to learn from mistakes.
Research shows that the ability to be self-reflective in an accurate and productive way is one of the greatest strengths of spectacularly successful executives and
entrepreneurs.
9. Resent Other People’s Success: It takes strength of character to feel genuine joy and excitement for other people’s success. Mentally strong people have this
ability. They don’t become jealous or resentful when others succeed (although they may take close notes on what the individual did well). They are willing to work
hard for their own chances at success, without relying on shortcuts.
10. Give Up After Failure: Every failure is a chance to improve. Even the greatest entrepreneurs are willing to admit that their early efforts invariably brought many
failures. Mentally strong people are willing to fail again and again, if necessary, as long as the learning experience from every “failure” can bring them closer to
their ultimate goals.
11. Fear Alone Time: Mentally strong people enjoy and even treasure the time they spend alone. They use their downtime to reflect, to plan, and to be productive. Most
importantly, they don’t depend on others to shore up their happiness and moods. They can be happy with others, and they can also be happy alone.
12. Feel the World Owes Them Anything: Particularly in the current economy, executives and employees at every level are gaining the realization that the world does
not owe them a salary, a benefits package and a comfortable life, regardless of their preparation and schooling. Mentally strong people enter the world prepared to
work and succeed on their merits, at every stage of the game.
13. Expect Immediate Results: Whether it’s a workout plan, a nutritional regimen, or starting a business, mentally strong people are “in it for the long haul”. They
know better than to expect immediate results. They apply their energy and time in measured doses and they celebrate each milestone and increment of success on the
way. They have “staying power.” And they understand that genuine changes take time.
Do you have mental strength? Are there elements on this list you need more of? With thanks to Amy Morin, I would like to reinforce my own abilities further in each of
these areas today. How about you?
Source: Google